I was on the bus the other day and received some pretty strong criticism from an elderly woman about my piercings.

She mentioned how unnatural it was of me to be sticking needles and metal into my skin for the purpose of vanity, and how both piercings AND vanity itself were sins. The thing I found amazing about her critique was that she delivered it both respectfully and calmly. She wasn't outraged about it, she didn't cause a scene, but very simply laid out her opinion. She was just mislead; as most people are when it comes to body modifications. She was wearing lipstick and had her ears pierced, herself. Had it have been a different tone of conversation, I would have replied to her "I suppose you were naturally born wearing earrings, then?".

(My piercings: angelbites, and a septum)

It made me start to really wonder why it is that tattoos, piercings and all things related have become so taboo in today's society? We either have to search back into primitive times or seek hope in the far future to see body modifications as an accepted part of our cultures. Unfortunately, we've created a stereotype for people who fall under the category of "modified" in society. Most people see piercings and tattoos as "dirty", "trashy" or "unprofessional". It's a shame that this is what we have turned something that derived from a cultured tradition into this sort of image (maybe a concept I'll go into in another blog). It's hard to break the mould of a stereotype once it's been hardened in to the minds of the public. 

I long for the day where all body art can be considered accepted, and appearance comes second to persona.

Browsing around the internet today, I found this video.


How can you put so much hate and non-acceptance in the world, then say it's a lesbian spokesperson - who, by the way, stands for acceptance, treating others as you wish to be treated, honesty, compassion and helping those in need - for JC Penney that is going to corrupt the traditional values of American families?


Of course I had to look up the One Million Mom's Facebook page, and found that it had been removed because of negative comments. I do take empathy for these Mom's, it's the age old overprotective-mother story and they just want what is best for their children. But what are they really protecting them from by trying to remove a gay media icon from their children's lives? There's a thin line here between protectiveness and homophobia. I think they need to re-strategise, because their outlook is going to give their children not protection - but ignorance, prejudice and a distortion of equality. 


People hating others for loving is a concept I've never quite understood. And people believe homosexuality will be the end of us is another.

Love is love is love is love.